Monday, 21 December 2020

DEVELOPING A GRATEFUL HEART


You only become grateful when you habitually practice gratitude, appreciation, gratefulness and thankfulness unto God who bestows all pleasant things unto us in this life and thereafter. A heart become grateful when it experiences the significance of the Love of Christ and the original blessedness that God gave all men as seen in the life of Adam and Eve [Genesis 1:28-29]. To be grateful means to show or feel an appreciation for kindness, benefits, something done or received. You cannot be hopeful about the future without being thankful for the good done to you either physical, spiritual or material. God shows Himself strong and lives in a humble and grateful heart.

To be grateful is when God does what is pleasing to your mind or satisfying to your soul and you show and offer words of appreciation. Just like the acquisition of most Christian qualities, gratitude is a progressive expression of the goodness that God bestows to us, it is not static and there must be increase in the level that we appreciate the goodness of God. However we do know that ungratefulness permeates the hearts of many believers in this season as many look at what has not been done instead of being thankful for many of what has been done.

“People will be self-centered lovers of themselves and obsessed with money. They will boast of great things as they strut around in their arrogant pride and mock all that is right. They will ignore their own families. They will be ungrateful and ungodly” 2 Tim. 3:2 TPT

Cultivating a grateful heart is not always an easy task, it is a little easier to cultivate when all is good but harder when you are facing the down side of life. But the word of God commands us to thank God at all times knowing that even the light afflictions that we do suffer, will eventually work out an eternal weight of glory.

“For our light affliction, which is but for a moment, work for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory” 2 Cor. 4:17 

Gratitude is a fierce weapon against the antics of Satan which when continually applied will give us victory over the hopelessness that Satan want to barrage our mind with. We must continue to look at Jesus the author and finisher of our faith despite all odds knowing that God will eventually make all things to work together for our good. He is well able! Ephesians 3:20

“The faithful love of the Lord never ends! His mercies never cease. Great is His faithfulness, His mercies begin afresh every morning” Lam. 3:22-24 TPT

The faithful and steadfast love of God guarantees His blessedness, so we must continue to praise him despite passing through the valley.

“Oh give thanks to the Lord, for he is good; for his steadfast love endures forever!” 1 Chronicles 16:34

We are admonished to always be thankful to God for everything.

“And do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery, but be filled with the Spirit, addressing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody to the Lord with your heart, giving thanks always and for everything to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ”. Ephesians 5:18-20

Other Thanksgiving scriptures

Eph. 5:4; Job 1:21; Psalms 34:1; Isa. 63:7; Acts 5:41; 1 Cor. 1:4; Phil. 1:3, Phil. 4:6; Coll. 1:11-12, Coll. 3:17; 1 Thess. 3:9, 1 Thess. 5:18; 2 Thess. 1:3, 2 Thess. 2:13

“Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and cometh down from the Father of lights, with whom is no variableness, neither shadow of turning” James 1:17 

Everything good in your life comes from God (James 1:17). We will grow closer to God when we understand this truth and build our lives around it. We will also be less weary when walking under the shadow of the death knowing that as we thank God, soon the good side of the Lord will show up.

We must cultivate or developing habits that will help us become more thankful. The true son that knows how to thank God will collect other pending blessings.

Remember this song

“When I think of the goodness of Jesus, and all He has done for me, my very soul shall soul hallelujah. Praise God for saving me!”

“And it came to pass, as he went to Jerusalem, that he passed through the midst of Samaria and Galilee. And as he entered into a certain village, there met him ten men that were lepers, which stood afar off: And they lifted up their voices, and said, Jesus, Master, have mercy on us. And when he saw them, he said unto them, Go shew yourselves unto the priests. And it came to pass, that, as they went, they were cleansed. And one of them, when he saw that he was healed, turned back, and with a loud voice glorified God, And fell down on his face at his feet, giving him thanks: and he was a Samaritan. And Jesus answering said, Were there not ten cleansed? but where are the nine? There are not found that returned to give glory to God, save this stranger. And he said unto him, Arise, go thy way: thy faith hath made thee whole” Luke 17:11-19 

The Samaritan who came back to Jesus to give thanks was not only healed of leprosy like the nine that did not come back to thank Jesus, everything that was wrong with him was made whole and he was offered eternity and salvation. Ingratitude often come from pride, hanging around ungrateful people [1 Cor. 15:33], and because of circumstances for example it is hard to be grateful when the bills are piling up and creditors pursuing us.

“It came even to pass, as the trumpeters and singers were as one, to make one sound to be heard in praising and thanking the LORD; and when they lifted up their voice with the trumpets and cymbals and instruments of music, and praised the LORD, saying, For he is good; for his mercy endures forever: that then the house was filled with a cloud, even the house of the LORD; So that the priests could not stand to minister by reason of the cloud: for the glory of the LORD had filled the house of God” 2 Chron. 5:14 

Regularly practice giving thanks and God’s Presence and blessings shall be evident around you. We should make a habit of expressing gratitude or appreciation to God who saved and delivered us from darkness and translated us into the kingdom of His dear Son Jesus! Inner peace is developed when you quit complaining! Remember “I complained and my spirit is over whelmed” [Psalms 77:3].

We all have only two choices either to be moody and grumble or be joyful and elated in spirit. Thankful people gauge blessings by things other than money. Imagine two people, one is very rich and has kidney issues and need dialysis once a week but the other person is averagely poor but has very sound health, obviously that poor but in good health person that is whining and complaining does not understand what the goodness of God is.

“Do all things without murmurings and disputing: That ye may be blameless and harmless, the sons of God, without rebuke, in the midst of a crooked and perverse nation, among whom ye shine as lights in the world” Phil. 2:14-15 

 Thankfulness rather than constant complaining, grouchy and murmuring should be our default position and we move from complaining to praising God even when the future seem bleak.

When you see something good in your life, thank God for it. Do not compare yourself or present predicament to others, you don’t know what they have gone through in life before they got to that wealthy place! We all complain occasionally, but we must practice responding to your own complaining by finding things to be thankful for. This helps to rewire your brain to be as skilled at recognizing the goodness of God in your life. God is forever good and His mercy endures forever.

“And when the people complained, it displeased the LORD: and the LORD heard it; and his anger was kindled; and the fire of the LORD burnt among them, and consumed them that were in the uttermost parts of the camp” Numbers 11:1 

Express gratitude regardless of the situation. Paul tells the Thessalonians to give thanks in all circumstances because it is the will of God [1 Thess. 5:18]. Why? We never see the full picture. We cannot look at every situation and clearly understand why it’s happening. We can only know God is at work in these situations and working them out for our good and His glory (Romans 8:28).

“We all experience times of testing, which is normal for every human being. But God will be faithful to you. He will screen and filter the severity, nature, and timing of every test or trial you face so that you can bear it. And each test is an opportunity to trust him more, for along with every trial God has provided for you a way of escape that will bring you out of it victoriously” 1 Cor. 10:13 TPT

Regardless of what is happening, we can thank God for his presence knowing that He delivered us, He is delivering us, and He will yet deliver us from the afflictions of tomorrow. He is redeeming the situation and sustaining us through it. On our own, we focus on the current situation. We must rise above the situation when we purposefully look for what God is doing in the middle of it. Joy always replaces sorrow and sadness when we begin to thank God, whose goodness and mercy endures forever!

“Perhaps it takes a purer faith to praise God for unrealized blessings than for those we once enjoyed or those we enjoy now” A.W. Tozer

Praise God when all is well. Praise God when it seem like all is not well. Praise God for unrealized blessings! You may believe this is obvious, but it is important that we praise and thank God. We must be conditioned and believe that life will go well for us because of the God factor; He promised that He will never leave us nor forsake us. When life runs smoothly, we don’t tend to see this as God’s gift to us. We don’t see how He protects, leads, direct, deliver, save, bless, guard and guide us along the way to green pastures and still waters. Trials of life are temporary, even in it, we must give God thanks and be assured that there will b e a turnaround! Our God is well able!

Learn to sit down like David before the Lord [1 Chron. 17:2-18] and chronicle God’s faithful actions; do it often intentionally and use the words from your lips to narrate the faithfulness and the goodness of our God.

Learn to see how bad experiences can produce good outcomes. Often you will be able to see how those bad experiences helped you gather strength and momentum for future blessings in your life. Regardless of that, learning to see past trials through eternity’s perspective enables us to be more thankful during times of struggle in the future.

“My brethren, count it all joy when ye fall into divers temptations; Knowing this, that the trying of your faith work patience. But let patience have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing” James 1:2-4 

Make gratitude a part of your interactions with other people. Gratitude should impact both our relationship with God and our relationships with other people.

“To appreciate means to raise in value. That’s not only true of things, it’s true of people. When you appreciate somebody, you literally raise their value. We ought to appreciate people because it increases their self-worth” Rick Warren

Make it a regular practice to say thank you to people in your life. Often, the people we express gratitude with the least in our lives are those that are closest to us like spouse, parents or children.

Lean into the strength gratitude provides. I know many people who have been through extremely tough situations. I have noticed those who are the most grateful and have learned to see God’s work regularly show the most persistence when going through hard times of life.

Thanksgiving is a superpower. It enables us to see past our experiences and embrace how God is moving. Not only are thankful people able to draw strength from gratitude, but they’re also able to empower others with their perspective as well. Their thanksgiving is a testimony of God’s goodness and enables others to develop faith in the ability of God to save, bless, heal, deliver, empower and sustain His Children

“Though the fig tree should not blossom, nor fruit be on the vines, the produce of the olive fail and the fields yield no food, the flock be cut off from the fold and there be no herd in the stalls, yet I will rejoice in the Lord; I will take joy in the God of my salvation.” Habakkuk 3:17-18

Habakkuk’s perspective in this scripture tells us to show gratitude even if we don’t have what we want or need. We need to prioritize what God is doing in a situation over our own wants and needs. We can learn from Habakkuk to rejoice even during troubling times.

Our ultimate source of thanksgiving should come from what God has revealed about himself in the Word and in the person of Jesus Christ

His love: John 3:16

“God bestows His blessings without discrimination. The followers of Jesus are children of God, and they should manifest the family likeness by doing good to all, even to those who deserve the opposite.” F.F. Bruce

His patience

“Quite honestly, most people are quick to “write someone off.” But our God is a God of the second chance. Learn from One who is patient with you, and you’ll learn to be patient with others.” Woodrow Kroll

His salvation

“Since no man is excluded from calling upon God the gate of salvation is open to all. There is nothing else to hinder us from entering, but our own unbelief.” John Calvin

His wisdom

“Wisdom is the power to see, and the inclination to choose, the best and highest goal, together with the surest means of attaining it. Wisdom is, in fact, the practical side of moral goodness. As such, it is found in its fulness only in God. He alone is naturally and entirely and invariable wise.” J. I. Packer. Thank God for giving us wisdom for without it, we cannot excel.

His mercy

Lamentations 3:22-24

“The mercy of God is an all-embracing mercy and it breaks down the barriers that man erects.” Allstair Begg

God is ever good and great!

“Everything about God is great, vast, and incomparable. He never forgets, never fails, never falters, and never forfeits His word.” Arthur W. Pink

“O give thanks unto the LORD, for he is good: for his mercy endures forever. Let the redeemed of the LORD say so, whom he hath redeemed from the hand of the enemy” Psalms 107:1-2 

We must be ever grateful for God is ever mindful of us and always looking for ways for all things to work together for our good

“Bless the LORD, O my soul: and all that is within me, bless his holy name. Bless the LORD, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits: Who forgives all thine iniquities; who heal all thy diseases; Who redeems your life from destruction; who crowns you with loving-kindness and tender mercies; Who satisfies thy mouth with good things; so that thy youth is renewed like the eagle's” Psalms 103:1-5 

It may not always be easy to give thanks especially when you are in the valley, but this is the very thing we must do in order to see God’s will accomplished in our lives. An attitude of thanksgiving accepts and embrace God’s will but discontent dries up the soul. Be like Jesus and obey God and embrace hardship without complain [Phil. 2:5-8] and you will also enjoy time of lifting like he did.

“I will offer to thee the sacrifice of thanksgiving, and will call upon the name of the LORD. I will pay my vows unto the LORD now in the presence of all his people” Psalms 116:17-18 

Let us prepare to give our thanksgiving unto God and sow according to the blessings that God has given to us over such a difficult season of life. Look back and see how God sustained you, family, children, health, provision and ever abounding grace and give Him thanks for His mercies that endures forever more.

“By him therefore let us offer the sacrifice of praise to God continually, that is, the fruit of our lips giving thanks to his name” Heb. 13:15

Let us stand to our feet or kneel down and give Him thanks by lifting up holy hands and blessing God with our mouth for his mercies that endures forever!

WAYS TO DEVELOP A GRATITUDE FILLED HEART

1.    Let gratitude become consistent and habitual. It helps to rewire your brain to be proficient the goodness of God in your life and often downplay the bad or those things that seem far-fetched or yet to be done.

2.    Express gratitude regardless of the situation knowing that the Almighty God is well able to turn things around in a jiffy [2 Chron. 20]

3.    Learn to praise God very well when the going is good, do not take it for granted that it is God’s obligation to do things for you or meet you at the point of need.

4.    Learn to see how bad experiences can produce good outcomes. Joseph went through afflictions for several years but he eventually became ruler in Egypt according to the promises of God. Know that your situation is subject to change. You may not see the full picture yet but soon, you will see the goodness of God in the land of the living

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Make gratitude a part of your interaction with other people appreciate them for the good rendered unto you. Complaining language changes when you learn to be grateful

6.    Lean on the strength gratitude provides. You disarm Satan from barraging your mind and empower both God and other people to do much more when you are grateful for good done to you.

Joses Hizkiah

joseshizkiah@gmail.com

www.uliministry.org

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